Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Still have 4 weeks? 3 weeks? 2 weeks? 还剩下4周?3周?2周??

I am now 36 weeks pregnant, and still have 4 weeks to go, baby now has 2.6kg already! Yesterday, I went to the hospital for checking, Dr. Voon in help me check the location of my baby head, she press on my lower abdomen and told me baby's head is downward already. And I also told her a few days ago I started to feel uncomfortable on my lower abdomen, feeling contractions, frequent urination, etc.! She also can not correctly tell me, baby will come out earlier or not? Later, she asked me, Have I started pack my clothes and baby clothes to enter the hospital? ? hahah! I get ready all this thing, during my 30th weeks of pregnancy already. Em....Doctor ask me this, is trying to tell me baby will come out early??? Besides, Doctor also said, my next check-ups, they already arranged 2 weeks after this. But if my amniotic fluid leak out, or start bleeding, quick admission into the hospital. Then....then..then...when will baby come out to meet us?? In these 2 weeks? 3 weeks? or 4 weeks?

Now, I'm too impatient, and hope baby will deliver early than expected deliver date. Because my stomach sometime will feel pain just like menstrual pain and it is so uncomfortable. Although is not continues pain like what written in the book, every 5 minutes will have contractions and feel pain; or within 10 minutes feel painful again. However, I really cannot stand for it anymore. Fortunately, I can fall asleep every night, but just need to get up 1-2 times to the toilet ! And plus, moving up and down from the bed also will feel painful on my stomach. If you in my situation, will you hope baby come out as early as they can??? wahahhaha!!

But, think again for the baby, I also hope baby will be born full term or after 38 weeks, so baby will had growth well in every area.

I have often told baby, and requested her to born perfectly healthy after 38 weeks. And her head must face downward and her feet is upward, and using her own strength, coupled with mama's strength, we work together to bring you to this world. hahahha!! Really hope baby will listen to my words.
我现在怀孕36周了,还剩下4周,而且宝宝已经有2.6kg 了。昨天去医院,Dr。Voon 在我的腹部下,按了按就说宝宝的头下了一点点哦!我也告诉她,我前几天开始,下腹隐隐作痛,感觉宫缩,频尿等!她也不能正确地告诉我,宝宝会不会早产呢?过后,她就问我,待产包包收拾好了吗??哈哈!我的待产包,早在我怀孕30周时收拾好了!医生这样问,是要告诉我宝宝回早到吗?医生又说,你下次的产检,我们安排在2星期后,但是假如你有破羊水,落红就快点进院。到底,宝宝几时会出来见我们呢??这2周内?3周内?4周内?

现在的我,已经等得有点不耐烦了,有少少的希望宝宝早点出世。因为,我的腹部会隐隐约约,翻翻复复的像经痛那样。虽然不像书上写的那样,每5分钟,10分钟会痛。但是,我已经感觉受不了。还好,每晚我都还能入睡,没有失眠,但是就是每晚需要起身上厕所1-2次!然后,又爬上床。移动来移动去,大腹便便的我又很不方便,加上又会痛。。。你是我的话。。你会不会希望宝宝早点出来呢??

但是,另一方面,我又希望宝宝能足月或38周才出世,毕竟发育方面也比较好了!!

我也时常告诉宝宝说,请她在38周后健健康康才出世。而且头要向下,脚要向上,利用自己的力量,加上妈妈的力气,我们一起努力将宝宝你生下来。希望宝宝听见我和她说的话吧!哈哈!

Sunday, November 22, 2009

吴小莉 “永远爱你”

N-年前,吴小莉的其中一篇文章被刊登在大马的“星洲日报”。当年,我大概还在念大学,还没怀孕,但是当我读完了,她的这篇文章感到非常的感动,所以就把它剪下来,粘在我的剪贴簿。

现在,我怀孕了。拿出来回味。。。回味!!真的会有身感其受的感觉。她和我们分享了,当年她怀孕临产时,朋友送给她的一份礼物,一本名为 “Love you forever" 的英文小画册。这本画册是画着一位母亲抱着她的新生婴儿,轻柔地摇晃他,并对孩子唱着:

I"ll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living
My baby you'll be
"我将永远爱你,
我会一直喜欢你,
只要有我在,
你永远是我的宝贝。”

娃娃到两岁时,她开始满屋子跑,将所有的书从书架翻下来,把母亲的表丢进马桶,有时母亲会说:这孩子快把我弄疯了,但是到了半夜,顽皮的孩子睡了,母亲会偷偷跑到孩子的房里,抱起她的孩子,唱着

"我将永远爱你,
我会一直喜欢你,
只要有我在,
你永远是我的宝贝。”

小孩长大了,他不愿意准时回家吃晚饭,他不喜欢洗澡,他对祖父说赃话,有时母亲想把她送进动物园。但夜阑人静时,母亲会偷偷跑到孩子的房里,抱起她的孩子,唱着

"我将永远爱你,
我会一直喜欢你,
只要有我在,
你永远是我的宝贝。”

小孩长大成人,一天他离开了家,但是当夜晚来临,他的母亲会开车过市镇,到孩子的家,偷偷爬进孩子的房,抱着意是大人的孩子,轻轻哼着:

"我将永远爱你,
我会一直喜欢你,
只要有我在,
你永远是我的宝贝。”

随着时间的推移,这位母亲越来越老,她打电话给孩子说:你最好来看我,因为我太老了。孩子来到母亲面前,老母亲再度哼唱着那首歌:

"我将永远爱你,
我会一直喜欢你,。。。。。

母亲老得没办法唱完这首歌。这时候,孩子抱起母亲,轻柔地摇晃她,唱着:

"我将永远爱你,
我会一直喜欢你,
只要有我在,
你永远是我的母亲。”

母亲入睡后,孩子回到自己的家中,悄悄走进刚出生的女儿房间,抱起小婴儿,轻柔地摇晃她,唱着:
"我将永远爱你,
我会一直喜欢你,
只要有我在,
你永远是我的宝贝。”

每每,我读完了这篇文章,眼睛都会湿湿的。。。感动万分!!送给所有当妈妈的你们!!!!

Saturday, November 7, 2009

3rd trimester 怀孕后期

I'm in my 3rd trimester of pregnancy, that is 7,8 months. Really no easy, and more and more hard now. Because, I can only walk slowly, when I need to change the sleeping position also very hard. And I cannot sitting on the floor, because sitting for a long time, my spine bottom part, will feel pain! Besides, baby is now fairly small, about 1. 8kg, so there is plenty of space for her the change her position in my tummy. When she is in the straight position in my tummy, I will feel so hard and so uncomfortable to have my meal. So, I will use my hand to press her, hahaha!! Soon she will turn to the cross-sleep! !

Baby's movement is also very obvious nowadays! ! Sometimes, when I'm lying on the sofa, belly suddenly jumping up! Silly me, will worry that, other people would think I was very weird! !haha! ! Now, as long as my palm on my stomach, I can feel the baby moving, turning around...is very fun and sweet! Mr.Quah and I would guess, here is the baby's legs, or the baby's head. I also found that baby has a very special attention to her father's voice. For example, she is busy doing her kicking activities, if suddenly she heard Mr.Quah's sound, she would to stop suddenly. And I will quietly asked Mr.Quah come to touch his daughter movement. Then, baby will suddenly become very "gentle" manner. Seem like she is dare not kick hardly and dare not move strongly!! wahahhahahah!! what a weird condition.

Few weeks ago, Mr.Quah went to Kuala Lumpur, training for a week. He go there by bus. I didn't go with him, because I do not want to stay alone in the hotel, or go shopping alone. After one week training,my brother and I went to the highway rest house to fetch him. Waiting for about 15 minutes, there are a bus stop quite far away from our car. My brother and I felt that, this no the one! Because, it seems very old, very unlike the highway bus. At this time, baby suddenly became very excited, kicking here and there. I didn't think much continue waiting for another bus, suddenly from far, we saw Mr.Quah carries his backpack, walking toward to our car! ! When baby heard Mr.Quah's voice, as usual she became "gentle" again!! I find is amazing , for some people may think it is a coincidence, but I believe baby has this telepathy ability ! !

怀孕后期,就是7,8个月,越来越辛苦了!真的不简单,不容易,真的很辛苦!!走路也要慢慢,睡觉翻身也要慢慢,就连坐在地上也不行,因为坐久了,我屁股脊椎部分,会很痛很痛!现在宝宝还算小,大约1。8kg,所以她还有很多空间在那里转来转去。当在肚子里的宝宝睡直的时候,顶着我的胃,吃饭的时候特别的很辛苦。所以,我都会按按我肚子里的宝宝,等多一下,她就会转去横睡了!!哈哈!!

宝宝的动作也很明显了!!有时,我歪歪的躺在沙发上,肚皮突然会跳起来!傻傻的我,在担心别人会觉得我很奇怪!!哈哈!!现在,只要我的手放在肚皮上,都会感觉到宝宝在那里移动,转身。我和Mr.Quah都会猜想,这里是宝宝的腿,还是宝宝的头。我也发现,宝宝对她爸爸的声音特别留意。正在忙碌踢来踢去的她,假如突然听到爸爸的声音会停下来。或着,我叫Mr.Quah来摸摸他女儿多么好动时,宝宝就会突然变"斯文"了,踢也小小力,动也不敢动!!!

有次,Mr.Quah下去吉隆坡,接受训练一个星期。他是坐长途巴士下去的。我没跟他一起去,因为,我不要一人待在酒店,或者一人去逛街。一个星期受训回来后,我和我弟弟去高速公路的休息站载他。等着,等着!有辆长途巴士停在蛮远的地方。我和弟弟就觉得不可能是这辆长途巴士吧!因为,看起来很旧,很不像长途巴士。这时,宝宝就开始很兴奋的在那里踢来踢去!我还不以为然,突然远远的看去,就是看到Mr.Quah手提着背包。向我们的车子走来!!宝宝着时候,听到爸爸的声音,就如往常一样,扮斯文。哈哈!!我觉得很神奇哦,可能有人会觉得是巧合,但是,我相信宝宝是感应得到的!!!

Friday, November 6, 2009

My pregnancy reference's book 我怀孕参考书!

In my high school period, I will definitely buy some reference books for myself, such as Add math, Biology, physic and etc. If I didn't buy it, I'll have strange feeling on myself....em...is a very "Kiasu" feeling actually. hahhaha.

Now, pregnant is another stage of life. So, reference books still my best friend. But this time, I bought quite a lot!! Gosh!! Each time, Mr.Quah and I go for shopping, bookstores is certainly our settled areas. The first book I bought was "40 weeks of pregnancy" that time, I still not yet pregnant. Just buy for fun. After pregnant, slowly. . slowly. . added one, added two, and now a total of 8! ! Wahahhaha! ! If someone recommend me a good book! I am very very willing to pay; if someone asked me to buy cosmetics, or clothes and so on. I'll try to escape for this and suddenly feel the clothes is so expensive or I have no money now..wahahahha!! So, sometimes I would think am I a normal lady? ? ?

在我念中学时期,参考书是我每年上一个年级,必买的书籍, 尤其是高级数学,生物学,物理学等等!没有买的话,又觉得很怪的感觉!!总之,就是很"怕输"的那一位就是了!
现在,怀孕了,就是进入人生的另一个阶段。难得,参考书还是没有远离我。。。反而还买了很多!!每次,我和Mr.Quah到广场逛逛,书局肯定是我们落脚的地方。打从,我还没怀孕之前,就买了"怀孕40周全书"慢慢。。慢慢。。又增加一本,两本,到现在一共有8本!!哇哈哈!!假如叫我买书!我是很舍得很甘愿;假如叫我买化妆品,衣服等等。我就会逃之遥遥,把钱看的很大,很难拿出来!!哈哈!!有时,我会在想,我是正常的女人吗???


Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Another small project for papa Quah!!

I get this cradle from my mom's friend, actually is a old cradle. Have to say thansk to my mom, cause she helps me to carry this...quite heavy!!!!

So, I assign Mr.Quah a new small project, ask him to painted it!! hehehehe!!

Then, we go to buy the cloth for this cradle, and we ask my mother-in-law to sew it..hehehe!! Just nice!! Thanks a lot to Mr.Quah and mother-in-law, cause the whole process...I did nothing...except choosing the clothe and take this pictures!! wahahahha...terrible mom!!!!

I hope Baby Megan will like it!!!!!! Cause this cradle is gather all the love from papa Quah, Mama Quah, my mom and my mother in law!!!!

Monday, October 26, 2009

You wash, I fold, We arranged!!

Today, Mr.Quah and I washed all the baby's stuff!! Get ready to welcome Baby Megan!! Lot's of napkin...wahahahahah!!! And then, we fold it together and arrange all of it in the Toyogo carbinet!! Yeah!! What a tiring morning!!!



Thursday, October 8, 2009

Baby Megan little face!!

Last 2 days, we went to hospital for scanning. Before we enter Dr.Voon's room, I told her today daddy and mommy come to see you again. Then we wait at the waiting area, baby Megan seem understand, and she started to show excitement, kicking and kicking. hahahha...finally, this time we saw her face!!! Anyone can see her face??? And her little hand across her chest. Can you see?? tell me...tell me!!