My wedding photo!! 3 months to go for my wedding day!!

Finally, share with my blog members this!!! This photo is take by Paisano bridal house in Penang island. Just because want to take wedding photo. My housemate and I went jogging around our apartment in Genting Klang!!! Amazingly, I was slim down "a bit!"!! hahaha better than nothing right?!! hehe. Anyway Thank you Joanne cause you company me and pull me out from my room to jogging with you. hehehe!!

Okok!! talk about taking the wedding photo. I had refer many wedding magazine just because of this, I finally get some idea from it... haha!! So, I decided to bring some soft toy, wedding ring, small windmill and the bubble machine. We reach bridal house at 8:30am early in the morning. One of the make up artist just arrived and start make up with me. Oh!! But don't know why, after the make up artist put the fake eyelashes on my double eyelid, it looks very weird and no nice. So she change and change and change!!! I'm so worry that time, is my double eyelid got problem or her problem???? haha finally she managed to do it too!!! Then, is Mr.Quah turn to make up. This is the first time he experience it!!!! hahah so funny, when the make up artist put ampoule (make up liquid) on his face, his face changes. But he dare not say anything, just continue it till when nobody in the room. He ask me what she put on his face!! He hate this sticky feeling!!! I just told him, make up is like this la, take it easy!! take it easy!!! hahaha

Then, start with indoor, white grown photo!! This is a funny and memorable memory for both of us!! We keep laughing and no serious in the photo!!! Some more Mr.Quah never try to post in front of so many people, so everything is so funny for him!! haha!! Then follow with outdoor, We went to the Penang Youth Park and Batu Ferriggi Beach to take photo!! The weather is so hot and some more is around 4pm afternoon, my make up almost melt!! haha! Everyone look at us when we are taking the photo!! hehe suddenly become popular!!

Then, we back bridal house around 6pm. Oops!! of course we have take lunch in the afternoon!! hehe!! The bridal house they buy us Thai fried rice!! Quite nice!! Then follow up when Chinese Cheong Sam photo and the blue night grown!! Of course, we really tired at that time!! Almost 10pm already!!! Finally finish!!

After the photo shoot!!! Both of us, "fly" to the Gurney drive there to have "dinner" at 10:30pm!! OMG!! I am so greedy and order lot of my favorite food!! End up too many and cannot finish it!!!

When I reach my house almost 12am already, have to take bath some more, OMG!! the make up is really thick and my hair.........how many shampoo do I need???!!! hahah

Final words, we really enjoy this photo shoot process!! And I guess this is the most sweet memory for every couple too!!! hehe!!

My poor wisdom tooth!!

I have been sick for 4 days, my last wisdom tooth's gum wasswelling up, very hard to chew and swallow food. I only can drink chocolate milk or porridge for my lunch and dinner. So so sad!!

Yesterday night finally I cannot stand anymore, I ask Mr.Quah to ask his local friend which is the best dental clinic over here. After dinner, clean my mouth and we go to the clinic. She check my wisdom tooth and she say: Oh!! you have infection on your gum. And your gum swelling up. My advice is you have to REMOVE your wisdom tooth, because there is no space for the it to growth, so now it cause the infection!!!If you don't remove it, this problem will come again!!

I'm so scare and almost want to cry when I heard she say have to REMOVE it. OMG!!! So she write down the medicine's name, and explain to me. One is the antibiotic, and one more is for anodyne. Some more she advice me, after few days, if there is no more swelling, I must come again to take the x-ray and see how to remove it!!!!! I almost want to faint in her clinic!!! hahaha

After left her clinic, we have to find out the phamacy to buy the medicine. Here like western country, clinic itself will not give you the medicine, patients have to go to the pharmacy to buy it. I don't like this way, Malaysia clinic is the best, we register, doctor checking and then take the medicine, pay money then bye bye!! Here, have to go pharmacy again!!! Haizzz!!

Today, I feel much better. No more swelling in my gum and everything back to normal!!! I plan to remove it when I back Malaysia!! And visit back my previous dental doctor and see how he advice me again!!!

This is the what she wrote for me!!












This is the medicine and the receipt!!!

Sohar Beach Hotel

That was a very boring evening, we decided go to somewhere just near by our apartment. Where to go??!!! Oh! we can go to Sohar Beach Hotel to take some photos! Really enjoy the weather and the green field!!

On the bottom photos are one of the room inside the hotel. I think tonight they will have some function here. Wedding function?? I don't know. I like the Arabic decoration. Every guests sit on the mat, enjoy food, music and candle light. I think at night should be very beautiful!!

Housewarming party?? I guess so!! haha

Welcome my guests...so busy till forgot to take picture with them!! haha





Cauliflower with potatoes curry. One of the vegetable dish!









Croquette, my favorite dish!! and very easy to prepare too!! Luckily they like this very much!! hehe











This is Chinese Herbal Chicken....hahahaha We forgot to add salt....OMG!!!! So, no choice just add some soy sauce...hahahahahah!! so blur!!!

Our new apartment in Suhar, Oman

This is the new apartment. Welcome to my house!!

Our previous apartment in Suhar, Oman

Today, we say bye to our old apartment!!

Cute Rabbit

I just received this email from my friend. Is so cute, but I don't know is the rabbit can eat or not?? Share with you this!!!

搬家 Moving

这几天都很忙着搬家的事，因为我们住的这栋公寓，大部分的人都因为工作办完了，回自己的国家去了。在这栋公寓只剩下我们两三家，老公公司不想租下去了，所以就要我们搬进另外一栋公寓。离我现在的公寓还有一段路的距离。

我很舍不得现在住着的公寓，小小间家很方便打扫呢！给我们两个人住刚刚好！不大也不小，这里有一间大主人房，厨房，厕所，一个大厅。

搬过去后，我就得做更多的家务，因为那里蛮大，两间大睡房，两个厕所，两个厅，一个厨房。我想懒惰的我半小时家务活肯定办不完！！！除此之外，我还得去认识新的邻居朋友了。讲了那么久，还没有说我们将在这个星期四搬进去，我们打算星期五请那里的朋友来我们家吃饭，来坐坐。我只煮家常便饭不敢请太多人。哈哈！！

This few days, I was very busy to pack up my things?? Going back Malaysia?? No la!! hehe!! Packing because we have to move the another apartment. Just left few family in this apartment, so the management admin request us to move to join others big families in another apartment.

I think I will miss this apartment, because so easy to clean up and just nice for two persons. Over there, the new apartment is quite big. I guess that one is for those have kids, for us is too big. haha!! Now I just take half an hour to do house work, after I stay there, I guess half an hour is not enough for me to complete it!! Haizzz!! Besides, I have to get to know new friends and new neighbor. Forgot to mention, I will move in this Thursday, and on Friday, we decided to invited the friends there to have lunch in my house. Show you my new apartment in this Saturday lo!! hehe!!

Baby!!

Funny baby


Baby with lemon

You want to have a plate of tomato rice??

Nasi tomato again!!! Haha just learn to make this dish, so have to try few times before I master it!! Fry something like nugget to eat together, plan to eat with mayonnaise but very fat fat oh!! So eat with chili sauce only!! hehe no bad also!!

Sohar Theme Park

Just went to visit this Theme park. But their theme park really not so happening like in Malaysia. Haha..Can see lot of thing insides and let us explore their life and the culture!! No bad!!

Breakfast time!!

Long time never have half boil eggs already!! I still remember my mom always prepare it when I was in Primary school!! Miss it so much! Especially eat with soy sauce and white pepper powder!

Today feeling!!

好不容易我们的婚礼冲破百天之内，算算手指我们准备这个婚礼都需要一年半的时间，我庆幸自己在准备这个婚礼没有跟Mr.Quah吵闹，我说什么他都赞同，他给的意见我也仔细想想，有时他给的意见真的很不错呢！！

还有大概一个月我就要回大马了，心里真的很矛盾，一心想回去赶快做完婚礼还没有完成的是事情，还有回家多陪家人，另一边心就是不想回去，想在这里煮煮东西给他吃，帮他做家务。他告诉我，我回去后，每当他返工回家，家里静悄悄的，他说他会想念我！！我想我明白这种感受。以前他到外国工作时，我的感觉就是这样，本来天天见面吵吵恼恼的我们，突然身边变的静悄悄了。好不习惯。Mr.Quah,你想不想有个完美婚礼，还是乱七八糟的婚礼呢？我回家就是准备这一些，再说我们多两个月我们又见回面了，两个月对我们来说是小儿科吧！！

越靠近婚礼，我越是胡思乱想，可能在佳礼家庭伦理呆太久，看太多家婆与媳妇之间的问题，又有很多是丈夫站在家婆那里一起指责老婆。我怕这些问题迟早是我会面对。 可是Mr.Quah说他妈妈不是我想象的那样可怕，再说我们呆在大马的日子也不久。好吧！我就这样接受他的解释。但我希望将来无论发生什么事情，他会站在我这里想想我的处境。

Unbelievable our wedding ceremony is within 100 days!! We are prepared this wedding in one and half years and I am so happy and fortunate because in the preparation process we never quarrels for opinion, what I suggestion he can accept and all the suggestion given by him I would also carefully consider. Sometimes he really has marvelous suggestion!!

There are about a month I will return to Malaysia, I was really in a dilemma, I want to go back to complete my wedding preparation and also I wish I still can stay a bit longer with my own family, my mother and my father!!! But on the other side of the heart, I wish I can stay a bit longer with him too, I still want to prepare dinner and lunch for him, and help him with household chores. He told me, after I go back Malaysia, when he back from work, he will feel lonely and feel empty in the house. I think I understand his feeling!!! I try before for so many times. Mr.Quah, do you want to have a perfect wedding or a wedding in as mess of it?? I go to prepare our perfect wedding right??!! Moreover, 2 monthe staying apart is not a big problem for us right??

On the other hand, the more close to the wedding, the more I am thinking about the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Maybe I read too much in some family problem forum. I am afraid all these problems sooner or later I will face. But Mr.Quah say his mother is not horrible that how I am thinking now. Somemore we are not always staying in Malaysia. So there are no big problem at all!! All right, for this time being I still accept his explanation. I hope in the furute no matter what happens, he will always standing besided me and understand me!!

Are we look alike??

Some people say we look alike, but some people say not!! Do we really look alike??? hahahahhaha!!! He don't know I upload the picture here...hahahahha

I finish it!! hehe

Finally, I finish this, but i still lack of one of the color. Here I cannot find any shop to sell this. So, I have to wait till I back Malaysia and continue it! hehe..I use this to decorate my new wed room!!

看人不顺眼，就是自己修养不够 When we are irritated by others, it is actually because we are still lacking in self-cultivation

前天，我和我的他去公园跑步回家的路途中，我们在车上看到有一位司机因为不满前面的司机，所以就在车上大骂并且按了久久的车笛。这位司机似乎很没有耐性， 脾气火爆。突然，我的他竟然说了一句，"看人不顺眼，就是自己修养不够”。这句话是我N年前跟他分享的，我是看了证严法师的静思语后，觉得这句话话讲的一 点都没错，所以很欢喜的跟他分享。想不到到今天他还记得。哈哈！！地确，假如我们时常看人不顺眼，觉得自己高人一等，觉得自己懂得比别人多，觉得自己做的 事情一定是对的话，很多事情你都会看不顺眼。在这个情况下，可能被你骂的那个人没觉得什么，但是在第三者的眼中，你是那么的没修养，品德恶劣。反过来说， 修养好的人，当然会以另外一种方式来解决问题，而不是大乎小叫的在那里吵闹。我呢? 当我想要发脾气时，看不顺眼一个人的种种行为时，都尽量告诉自己这句话。我要当个有修养的人。。。所以脾气都安了下来。当然，我还是在学习中。我还是会有 臭脾气，希望大家能和我一起共勉，培养好脾气，做个有修养的人。


The day before yesterday, we went to jogging in the park, on the way home, we saw a driver is very discontented and horn loudly the driver in front. The driver is really impatient and hot temper. All of a sudden, I heard my dear he said “When we are irritated by others, it is actually because we are still lacking in self-cultivation”. This phase, I share with him N years ago. I learn this phase from Master Cheng Yen in her Jing Shi YU, and I think this words are right, so I was pleased to share with him. Unbelievable he still remembers it until today. Hahah!! And indeed, if we always think others action is silly, feel superior, feel yourself know more than others, feel all the thing you decided is correct, you will see a lot of things are not pleasing to the eyes. In this case, maybe others will think you are lack of self-cultivation and have poor moral character. If we see from the positive way, people who have well self-cultivation, they will use good and polite way or maybe high EQ way to solve the problem. Screaming on others or get mad is not the good way to solve it. Am I right?? For me, when I want to get angry, or I really can’t stand of certain people or certain incident, I will remind myself with this phase, so I will control my temper. Of course, I am still learning, I still have bad temper, and I hope that we can learn together to be a high EQ people.

Cauliflower Curry!! And Chinese Chicken hamburger!!

Cauliflower, potatoes and tomatoes curry...I'm so regret that I add coconut milk insides. If not my sour tomatoes will make my curry nicer...haizz!!

Never mind la, I will try it next time.








Curry and rice, always the best is the combination for meal!!









This is Chinese Chicken hamburger, hahahah!! Actually is Chinese steam sweet bun "Mantou" Insides, I put fry chicken, hotdog, lettuce and tomato sauce.

Sweet cousin sister wedding day!!

My Sweet Sweet cousin sister wedding day on 13 Sept 08. But I cannot attend her wedding ceremony... so sad. Old Chinese people say if couples get marry in the same year. They cannot attend each other wedding. I really don't understand why??

This photo is taken by Khoonie, which is my cousin brother. Nice photo isn't it?? If you wish to ask him take for you too!! Please sent message for me. I will tell him.

Cute cute flower girls on the bottom part!! hehe

Finally I get it~

Finally, I get my Oman resident card...waiting so long already!!! Haha guess what! I can stay here till years of 2010. Mr.Quah only untill 2009 March!! Hahaha...he laugh at me, say I can stay here alone and he go back malaysia.

Happy Moon cake festival

Happy Moon cake festival to everyone!! Remember to reserve some moon cake for me!! And go out to play lantern!! hahahah!!

I wish to make moon cake by myself!!! Em......but over here cannot find all the ingredients....So sad!!
Here sale all the Ramadan stuff.









I make this Green Bean with Rice ball to celebrate this festival with my Mr.Quah! yaya!! I add lots of coconut milk. hahah

Lemon Sauce Chicken set lunch!!

Mr. Quah say I always like to make like set lunch in hawker center. How much I can sell this?? Rm 3.5?? Rm 4.5??? haha







Wow!! Is really sour!! But really easy to cook!!












I use this Sauce to cook it!!! hehe

Aquarius magazine

Without Cleo, Bella, "Nv you" magazine over here, I really feel sad. Luckily I found another magazine to replace all my favorite magazine - Aquarius magazine.

Same like my horoscope. hehe!! That's way everything in the magazine just suit my style. I like the magazine full with all the information such as "10 ways to keep your body healthy" or "5 ways to save your money" haha

Pumpkin soup and Honey Pan cake

Pumpkin soup...Yeah!!! I done this!! Plan to cook since long time ago!! I change the recipe myself..hehe..actually they use cream...I change to Milk. And I don't have nutmeg and cinnamon. hehe!!

Ingredients:
- Pumpkin
- Butter
- Chicken Stock
- Mushroom
- Onion
- Garlic
- Milk
- Water
- Chive
- Sugar
- Salt
- Pepper powder

Method:
1. Boil pumpkin in water for 25 minutes, till very very soft. And press it like we do mesh potatoes.
2. Cook chicken stock.
3.Fry Garlic and Onion with butter for few second.
4. Pour pumpkin and chicken stock in.
5. Add salt, sugar and pepper powder as you like.
6. Boil it for 10 minutes
7. Lastly, add milk or coconut milk.
8. Serve.



Pancake with Honey....I like it!!!
Ingredient:
- Pancake powder
- 2 egg
- 300 ml milk
- Honey
Method
1. Mix the pancake powder, egg and milk.
2. Blend it till smooth
3. Put butter in the pan
4. Slow down the fire and pour small quantity in the pan.
5. Bake till dry then turn over and untill golden brown.
6. Add some honey on top and ready to serve.

Rice noodles with variety of side dish...haha

I cook rice noodles today. Em...add lot of thing insides. Firstly, is chicken with carrot soup. Then, I add some fry garlic insides.

On top I add 2 fish ball, dumpling, chive, and fry small fish (ikan bilis) hahahahah!! I am greedy too!!

我们的故事 Our story

故事从我们中六开始。。。

有一天。。。我们中六第一天开课，那时候有很多另一个学校的人加进我们的学校。。。情况跟往常不一样。我还记得那时我跟友人一起去食堂吃东西。。。从远方我看到一个人，样子还可以，高高大大。。不错不错。哈哈 ！然后对他的感觉就不了了之。。。。

过了几天后，学长团突然有集会，而且还招集别校的学长，我又发现到他的存在。。。那时真的纯粹小女生望男生的感觉。。。没有多一点的想象。在我们交往后，我才知到他在这时后才注意到我。他心里说：这个女生好可爱哦！那时的我是圆圆短发，我自己都不觉得怎样可爱。。。。

就这样我们是学长团的一分子，没有多话，只是问问好而已。过了一年，我们两都被选为组长，关系更加的密切了。。哈哈不是你想的密切。。。只是时常会见面开会而以。

就 在我们学校的特别活动中，我们学长必须巡锣。就在我们开始巡锣，我发现他这个人有点怪异的，我巡锣这里他跟这里，我巡锣那里他跟那里。一直努力找新的话 题。。心里想：这个人真是的。。。很想很想叫他走开。我想自己走走。。。想去找朋友偷懒一下都不行。。。结果他真的跟着我整天。。。

我心里知到他的目的。。。但当时的我就只有＂上大学＂的目标。恋爱还早吧！！！我尽量远离他，也一直不为所动。心里头一直在想这只大苍蝇几时会被我打飞走呢？？我也知道他一直都没放弃。

久而久之。。。我突然发现他没有任何行动了。。。心里不知多么多么的开心。。。终于，他放弃我了。。。哈哈。

就在我们大学分配名单出榜时。。我也很自然的跟他讲话，问问他成功进入哪间大学？他被派去柔佛工大，而我呢？就是吉隆坡，博大。。。那时没有怎样，我们也没有留下任何联络的方法，就这样被分开了。。。我呢？？只有开心期待过大学的日子。。。哈哈

直到有一天，我们进博大的penang朋友集在一起，说起在工大的某一位朋友，生日了，我就马上发了一封生日的讯系给这位朋友，怎知是我朋有给错消息了，真的生日是在下个月的今天。。。啊哟。。我真摆误龙！！！

这 位收到生日讯系的朋友就告诉他（这么刚好遇见），我做了个笑话，记错生日。。。他急忙向他要我的电话。好啦，他以为拿到我的电话。。。心里暗喜。。。两人 开始通讯系（sms)...一直到，一个月后。。。。。。。。。突然通的一次电话他发现，声音不一样。为何呢？因为电话里的声音跟他熟悉的粗音不一样，本 小姐的声音比较粗。。。哈哈

他马上就去问给他电话的朋友。。。才知到这一个月找到的人不是我。。。是另有其人。

转了一个大圈，我们才联络上。。。是不是。。。很搞笑，很艰难呢？？
我们通电话，通讯系，考试时互相鼓励。。。我心里开始喜欢这个人了。。。
一直到８月２０日这天。。。。他终于，鼓起勇气问我。。。可不可以当他的女友。。。我想了想。。。就回答。。。＂好吧＂

就这样开始我们的五年远距里恋爱。。。一直到，五年以后的今天我们终于在一起，也计划在今年尾结婚。。。

Our story start from year 2001, when he first came to high school to study Form 6. I saw him at school canteen at the first time and the first impression from me to him was good. But I never have any interest to get any relationship at this moment.

For him, he notice me when he attend our school first prefect meeting. This meeting is to gather all the prefect from different school. At that moment his first impression to me, is this girl is cute. He told me this after we are together.

After few months later, both of us become prefect team leader. So, we have much more time to meet each other, for instance in the meeting and the school activities. In one of the school activity, as a prefect we need to on patrol in the school area. I was on patrol in certain place, but he always follow where ever I go. And I know he try so hard to find topic to chat with me. On that time, I was very irritated. I don't like anyone to follow me, I just need to on patrol by myself.

Start from that day, I understand he has some feeling on me. But, deep in my heart I just want to study, and get into university...Relationship?!! Still too far for me!! And I start to escape from him, and I wish he can spot others girls.Haha

Few months later, I guess he understand my feeling and he stop doing thing to irritated me. I am SO happy that he already give up!!! hehe. And we start to pay attention on the STPM examination.

After a year, we received a letter to inform us, which university we enter. So, as a friend I call him up to ask which university he get. I told him I will continue my study in UPM and he told me he will go UTM. Shortly, we end the call and I start to prepare all my things happily and get ready to continue my study in UPM.

Until one day, my hometown friend ask me to meet up in UPM. In the conversation, my hometown friend told me, today is the birthday for one of the friend in UTM (Not him). So, I sms the birthday message for him....But unfortunately, today is not his birthday, his birthday is on next month. Oh no, i was mistake.

I was so shy and say sorry to this friend...haha...So this friends tell him I did some funny mistake. When he know is me, so he get my number from him. He was so happy and sms everyday to this number...

But, one more time....unfortunately, the number he get wasn't me. Is other girl. He realize it when he received the call from her. So, he go back to the friend who gave this number to him and get my correct number....

So, finally we are connected to each other...through phone. haha so hard ya!!
We started to have good conversation and he always cheer up for me when I am down...so until 20 Augest, 2003. I agree to be his girl friend.....and start our long distance relationship....

After 5 years long distance relationship, we decision to end this relationship...haha and start our "No distance relationship"

Tomato Rice with Black sauce chicken 番茄饭, 黑酱鸡肉

Tomato rice or nasi tomato in Malaysia word. I learn it from youtube.
The ingredient:
1. Milk 牛奶
2. Rice 米
3. Tomato 番茄
4. Star anise 八角
5. Ginger 姜
6. Onion 洋葱
7. Tomato paste 番茄酱
8. Sweet Corn 甜玉米
9. Sugar 糖
10. Salt 食盐

Method:
1. Fry star anise with little oil for few second
2. Then fry Ginger, onion for few second too.
3. Add tomato, sweet corn, and tomato paste.
4. Add Milk + water measure like you cook normal rice.
5. Add 1/2 teaspoon of sugar and 1/2 teaspoon of salt.
6. Add rice and cook in the rice cooker.

My Register of marriage video~

Haha!! Time really flies, already more than one year we register of marriage. I ROM at 27 Jun 2007. Tell you what...at that moment really lots of people look at me...so I really shy!!! and act like this!! hehehe

Cabbage fry with egg!! Weird???

This is cabbage fry with egg. Chee wai teach me cook this before we sleep.
But i never think it will become like this, the taste really same like the egg in the 5 Combination Dish 五福临门










Tomyam soup....i really crazy about tomyam.

Wedding Cup Cake

I like this special wedding cup cake then the ordinary wedding cake. Hehe very cute rite?? But I guess my wedding package is included the ordinary 5 layer wedding cake. Never mind la...what ever la...Girls!! Next time your wedding cake can try with this~

Cereal with banana

My lovely breakfast, Cereal with banana. I wake up early today, so make this for my breakfast. hehe I love banana!!

Who pre-determined our fate? 是谁定了我们的命运 ?

我常听人说命运是天定的，没有一个人能逃离命运中的安排。发生什么不如意的事情时，往往都会怨天怨地。又或者埋怨身边的人，事，物带来衰运给他。但人有没有想过命运其实是自己的心态，行为，习惯造成的呢？是自己的心态，行为，习惯带来的衰运呢？

就说一个年轻人，刚外国毕业回国，虽然他有学历，有实力，样貌都不错，但是终是做什么工作都不长久，不是自己辞职，就是老板给他大信封。他也为自己一直换工的事情感到苦恼。本来刚找到一份自己很喜欢的工作，自己也感满怀信心可以表现出色的工，但不知怎的，就被老板炒了。可能这时候的他，会怨天尤人，怨命运玩弄他。但是，他没有想到是他心态出了问题，他常常觉得他人不如自己，自己才是公司里的精英，他觉得公司的老臣子应该退休回家。就是因为他有这样的心态，所以他的行为也对应了他的心态。平时在公司里他太嚣张了，对同事说话也处处不饶人，说什么也一定是自己对，自己赢。久而久之，他这种骄傲的行为变成了他的习惯。有时，对老板说话，自然的表现得高傲，让人觉得他很轻浮。很难将大工程交给他做。所以，老板觉得此人没有什么表现之出，所以把他给炒了。

他接下来的几份工，都是难逃离职，被迫离职的结果。就这样变成了他的命运。假如，他还找不出是他的心态，行为，习惯造成的，可能他会觉得是他的本命，做什么都不能成功，是天不给他机会。我们身为局外人，就看得很清楚，这样的命运是他自己造成的。

所以，我们常常要留意自己的心态，因为它能影响我们的行为；要留意我们的行为，因为它能影响我们的习惯；也要留意我们的习惯，因为它能影响我们的命运。

Have you ever heard that, people's fate is pre-determined by god or something you may not know. Not one can change our life or can rearrange our life. When some bad thing happened, normally we will blame god or we will blame our fate. Sometimes, you may blame people around you, or thing around you, bring all the bad luck for you. Do you ever think that, your fate is pre-determined by your thinking, behavior, or habit?? Or all the bad luck is determined by your thinking, behavior, or habit??

Share with you a story. A young men, just graduate from oversea university, has a very excellent result, and tangible achievement in school. But, he always change his working enviroment. Sometime he resign just because the working enviroment is not suitable for him; Sometime he is abandon by his boss. He himself also feel sad and distress because of this. When he really enjoy and believe he can preform well in a work, but end up he was abandon by his boss. Maybe he will blame others causing him lost this good opputunity. But he never think that all the problem is from himself. He always think that he is the smarter one in the company, all the old stuff should resign and retired, no one is better that him. So, his thinking corresponding to his behavior. He is very arrogance in the company, he never forgive people, when people say something wrong. In company meeting, he always assume that all his suggestion is the best and no one think better that this. He make all the stuff feel bad and unhappy. As time passes, this behavior became his habit. When he talk with his boss, he will just act like usal. He talk arrogance, somthing he cannot do also he claim that he can do compare to the old stuff. So, his boss feel that he is too levity cannot handle a some important project. As a result, he is abandon by his boss again.

So on, his working life cycle is repeated. He never work permently to a company. If he never realise that his thinking, behavior, habit cause his fate. Maybe he will blame his fate, or he will cry to the sky and asking why he has this poor life and fate. But we as a outsider, can see clearly his fate is done by himself. No one is pre-determined his life and fate.

So, we must always review our thinking, because it may influence our behavior; We must always review our bahavior, because it may influence our habit; and lastly we mush always review our habit, because it may influence our fate.

Tomyam Steamboat in Middle east??!!! Hot!!!

We suddenly think to have Tomyam's steamboat as our dinner. Hahaha!! is extremely a heavy dinner for me!! I prepared Lettuce, eggs, Bihoon, Prawns, Chicken, Crab stick, fish ball and a little bit of hot dog-Cheewai favorite haha!!

Want to join us?? 

Tomyam soup. Is a most famous dishes in Thai cuisine, very sour and hot! I add lots of tomato paste and cabbage. Opps!! I forgot to add my favorite carrot!! hehe

After the hot and sour Tomyam's steamboat...We sweat a lots!! I prepare this......Root beer float!! hahahah How many calories for this vanilla ice cream and coke?? OMG!!

我的筹备传统婚礼过程~

筹备婚礼进行表：

跟着进行表来筹备，会容易得多了

•六至四个月前 都要安排双方家长见面.
可开始新居组贷或选购计划, 新居装修,
婚礼日期, 地点, 财政预算.

•三个月前 开始排期办理注册手续,列出婚礼及婚宴邀客名单.
开始印制喜帖,须订酒席选择酒楼式酒店,
选礼服,拍摄婚纱照.

•二个月前 准备过大礼物品,嫁妆,
预订婚礼化妆师及发型师,婚礼日摄影，录影及花车,
选购结婚戒指及饰物.购买新居用品,选择地方蜜月旅行.

•一个月前 可开始修发,电发,护发,脸部护理,健康饮食调理,
择定良辰吉日过大礼,
再试穿礼服以作修改.
所有礼品,家具,用品也应该送往新居.

•一至二个星期前 选择戒指,准备红包,
购买新衣,内衣,鞋子.
买招待客人的食物如汽水,酒,花生,瓜子,水果,蛋糕等等.
还要预订回门礼品.

•两天前 提醒摄影师,化妆师准时到场和记下他们的联络电话.
还要到美容室护理和时时保持充足的睡眠.
也别忘记发电给宾客,以便可计算婚宴席数.
然后就收拾旅行袋及证件,宜预先列好行事清单.

•一天前 提醒双方家人准时在家中进行头仪式.
婚礼当天准备带所需要用品.
还要保持心情轻松快乐.
取婚纱礼服,注意是否有损坏或问题.
准备红包给工作人员,司机和大妗姐.

•婚礼后 交还婚纱礼服给婚纱店,取回订金,计算婚礼开支.

三朝回门,准备带回门礼品.

然后可开开心心踏上蜜月之旅了.

　　传统婚礼过程

婚礼前的礼仪

1.送聘礼：婚礼前，男方就要到女方家送迎亲的聘礼。广州的风俗是要送鸡(意味着有生气)、椰子(有爷有子，天伦之福)、礼饼(送给女方的亲戚)，而且还要送礼金，意味着男方家有钱，会让女子嫁过去享福。我们送聘礼是在２２／１２／０８ 早上

2.回礼：女方家也会接着回礼，礼物包括槟榔(意味着新郎)。

3.安床：在结婚前一晚上，女方会找一个有福气的男人(家庭美满，父母健在，有儿子)来安新房的新床，并且把花生、红枣、核桃等意味着早生贵子等好意头的食品放在床头。我们会在２６／１２／０８ 安床

4.嫁妆：新娘会在出嫁前，把娘家准备的嫁妆装在一只红皮箱里，等到第二天带到婆家去。

5.上头：结婚前晚，会选择一个吉时去拜神，拜天地，祈求幸福，并且会通知男方在同一时间拜。我会在２８／１２／０８晚上,上头

6.梳头：新娘会请一个有福气的长辈来给自己梳头。

7.吃汤圆：意味着可以圆满成婚，圆满幸福。

　　婚礼当天的礼仪

1.迎亲：婚礼上午，男方的接亲队伍就要来女方家接亲了。现今，接新娘是整个婚礼的一大高潮。第一关便是“入门”。若要顺利接得美人归，必须经过一连串智力及体能测试，必要时还加上歌情话，但最重要的还是丰厚的“开门利市”，众姊妹满意后才开门。新郎应以花球迎娶新娘(新娘不可自制花球)。

2.找红鞋：新郎会在接新娘的房间里找给新娘穿的红鞋子，给新娘穿上后才能把新娘带走。

3.敬茶：新人再向双亲奉茶跪拜(若依照旧式俗例，新人未到男家拜见翁姑之前，不可跪拜，即新人应站着奉茶给女方父母。不过现时已没有这么讲究，想跪便去跪，以示心意)。

4.撑红伞、撒米：由伴娘撑红色伞伴新娘新郎出门，并且会边走边撒米给鸡吃，以免鸡啄到新娘。

5.绕吉祥路：迎接新娘的车必须绕着市区的吉祥路名的路走一圈。如吉祥路、惠福路等有好听吉祥之名的路。

6.过门：过门指新娘由女家出门后正式踏入男家，拜见翁姑及男家其他长辈。

7.婚礼：到酒店举行仪式，有司仪会主持仪式。

8.敬客：酒宴开始之后等到上鱼的时候，新娘换上传统的龙凤褂给客人敬茶。

9.入洞房：酒宴结束后新人会和一些朋友开始去新房参观或者娱乐。

10.回门：三朝回门指在婚后第三天，新妇由夫婿陪同，带备烧猪及礼品回娘家祭祖。

　教你准确预算酒席数

一、敬请亲友赐覆

　　帖上应写上“敬请赐覆”，即请客人通知出席与否。帖上应清楚注明你的联络电话及地址，以便客人回复。若你设想周到，可附寄一张回复咭，好让亲友填妥后寄回。

二、致电确实出席

　　亲自打电话给宾客查询他们出席与否，直接又具诚意。若新人无暇兼顾众多宾客，可分散给筹委会成员代为办理。

三、订定席数申缩度

应订下“最低确保席数”及“最高预计席数”。

如确保十八席，预计二十席，这样便可加减两席。在极繁忙的好日子，新人可将出席率打八折，而普通日子则可预九成，最好向食肆请教，并最迟于婚宴前三日确定席数之申缩度。

　婚宴上的新娘桌　

在新婚礼仪中，重要的一项内容是婚宴，而新娘桌又是众人瞩目的焦点。

婚庆活动告一段落后，参加婚礼仪式的人员就可以坐下来好好用餐、畅饮和跳舞。即使婚宴所提供的食物只是一些开胃小菜，外加冰淇淋和结婚蛋糕，参加婚礼仪式的人员还是应该有一张专属新夫妻的 新娘桌，让新人可以坐下来舒舒服服享用食物和香槟，兴致来的时候还可以到舞池里去活动活动筋骨。即使在不是十分正式的婚宴上，新人也应该有座位卡，标示出 他们专属的座位。至于其他的宾客，婚宴会场内应该摆有几张比较小的桌子，好让他们在交际和跳舞之余有地方可以坐下来。

在新娘桌上，新娘和新郎应该紧邻而坐，而新郎的另一边则坐着大伴娘,新娘的另一边则是男傧相，紧邻男傧相则坐着小伴娘。招待和女傧相则按照男女相间的方式，依次安排座位。如果空间够大，应该邀请招待和女傧相的配偶或男女朋友一同坐在这张餐桌上。不过，如果参加婚礼仪式的人员数目众多，招待和女傧相的配偶或要好朋友可能就无法共坐这张新娘桌了，在这种情况下，只好请他们改坐在另一张紧邻的餐桌上。

在宾客都有座位的正式午宴或晚宴场合上，所有宾客及参加婚礼仪式的人，都应当有自己的座位卡和所坐餐桌的编号。

　　酒店行礼仪式

一般在喜宴上的仪式如下：

1.新郎、新娘在宴会厅门口迎宾；

2.证婚人、介绍人、来宾、主婚人及亲属入席；

3.结婚典礼开始，奏《结婚进行曲》；

4.男女宾相引新郎、新郎入席；

5.司仪主持结婚仪式；

6.证婚人发言，宣读结婚证书；

7.来宾代表发言，祝贺词；

　　8.新郎、新娘交换信物；

　　9.开香槟酒、切结婚蛋糕、喝交杯酒；

　　10.双方家长上台，家长代表发言，祝贺词；

　　11.新郎、新娘相向双方家长三鞠躬，向来宾三鞠躬，相互三鞠躬；

　　12.合影；

　　13.举杯，司仪宣布宴会开始；

　　14.男女傧相引新郎新娘退席；

　　15.仪式结束。

Which one suit me the most??!!

This few days I busy looking for my actual day wedding hair-style. I like most of the hair-style below. Which one nicer?? Do you have any good suggestion?? hehe

Croquette with rice~

Today lunch, I prepared this Croquette 炸肉饼with rice.

But today I add too much potatoes so after fry also a bit too soft. So, I gain one experience again, the portion of chicken and potatoes should be equal. Or the portion of Potatoes should be less then the chicken.

You wish to get the recipe, please click here

My special recipe!!

Is Sweet and Sour Chicken Potatoes with rice. 酸甜鸡肉马铃薯

Ingredients:
1. Chopped chicken meat 鸡肉碎
2. Potatoes 马铃薯
3. Capsicum 青辣椒
4. Garlic 蒜头
5. Onion 洋葱
6. Tomato paste 番茄酱




This is Sweet Corn Soup 甜玉米汤!!

Ingredients:
1. Sweet Corn 甜玉米
2. Chicken 鸡肉
3. Carrot cube 胡萝卜
4. Egg 蛋
5. Chive 细香葱

Sweet Soy Sauce Chicken wing

Sweet Soy Sauce Chicken wing and Steam Broccoli Carrot with rice.









Look yummy...hehe


Paisei la!!!