天天都是我的星期日 Everyday is my Sunday

今天是星期日，待在家无所事事。。。哈哈！基本上，现在的我天天都是星期日。没有啦！今天完全不理婚礼的事咯。。。真的筹办到很累。突然有种想法，不然cancel所有的东西。直接等30/12/2008, 和Mr.Quah上飞机去台湾好了。哈哈！多好！

无所事事的我，就乱乱跑进别人的部落格逛逛，看别人的故事和照片。发现到其他人的部落格里，好多美丽，又有艺术的照片和感人肺腑的心情语录。看看自己的简直是。。无言。。不方便批评自己。。。。

在加上，这几天来我家这里的天气，早上下大雨，下午就放晴，晚上又下雨。反反复复。我也跟着病了，少少发烧，自己又不想吃药。想靠自己的免疫系统来对抗病菌。我的发烧也跟天气一样，时好时坏。放心，我会多喝水，早睡的。。。

说 到早睡。。。我的身体和眼睛是早睡的，但是我的脑就是不受空制，天马行空的在想这个，想那个。。。搞到自己从11:30pm上床睡觉，到3:30am，还 没有真正入睡！生气起来，就骂自己，还不睡，不要再想了，皮肤都变粗了，荷尔蒙都快失调了，快睡！这样一来，我才能入睡。。。很好笑吧！！我真的病 到。。。（桃卡派料－福建话）就是头脑坏了！

Today is Sunday, I stay at home doing nothing. . . Ha ha! Basically, now seem like every day is my Sunday, wahahahah!! Today I will totally ignores all the wedding affair...you know what, to organize a wedding really tired work. Suddenly I have the a weird idea, it is cancel all the wedding event and directly on 30/12/2008, went Taiwan with Mr.Quah. WaHa ha! Good!

Since I'm so boring, I went to read other people's stories and photos in their blog. Wow!! They really impress me, they have nice photo and great quotation of mind to share with others. Compare with mine.....I'm speechless....haha is not convenient to criticize myself here!! hehe

Plus, this past few days the weather in my hometown here is not so good, sometimes heavy rain in the morning, sunny day in the afternoon, and evening raining again..repeatedly. I also fall sick because of the weather, a little bit of fever, but I don't want to take any medicine. Rely on my own immune system to fight the fever bacterial in my body. Same thing, my fever also follow the weather, sometimes good and sometime is bad. Haha!! No worry I will drink plenty of water, and sleep early. . .

Em...about sleep early. . .although my body and my eyes on the bed early, but my brain is not together with my body, my brain keep thinking about this and that. . . So, example I on the bed from 11:30 pm, but my mind still awake when 3:30 am..haizzz!! I'll angry, scolding myself to stop thinking, better sleep now if not my skin will be bad, and I'll imbalance in hormones, better sleep now! It is really work on me, I'll soon fall asleep. . . It funny! ! I think I really sick and is out of mind!

我是个爱哭包 I'm a crybaby

从小到大，我都爱看台湾泡沫连续剧，或者香港家庭斗争片。每每故事情节拍到父亲拼了命为了保护自己的儿女避免被外人伤害，或母亲和子女相拥抱的一面，感恩父母的养育之恩；还是朋友之间的友谊，互相勉励最后得到成功。当我看这些情节，我看得又非常入戏。我的眼泪肯定泪流满面，好像一把眼泪，一把鼻涕的，怪可怜的。

昨天，我与妈妈去找我的表姐，还有去探望刚从纽西兰回来的表姐，顺便去派喜帖给她们。多年不见的表姐一见我妈妈，就和我妈相拥抱，还可以看见我表姐眼眶变红，隐隐约约看到泪水。我一看到这样的情节，当然不禁也跟着想哭。我当然没有哭到一把眼泪，一把鼻涕那么夸张。因为不少人在场嘛！我还会不好意识的。哈哈！！

时间过得很快，到傍晚时候，我们几家人就去附近的餐厅吃饭。表姐们说着说着，又说到我敏感的话题了。其中一位表姐就说：想当年，自己要出嫁时，早上还傻嘻嘻的期待婚礼，一到敬茶给父母时，送嫁娘有说到，新娘出门就是别人的女儿了，今天就是拜别亲生父母了。我表姐说，她突然感觉到自己真的要去到另一个陌生的家庭生活了，感觉到不能像以前那样在家撒娇父母了。她的眼泪也是不听话，一直一直往下流。

当她说到一半时，没有人注意到我已经是泪流满面了。我的眼泪真的不能顶这些情节的。突然，我表姐夫告诉大家，我这个还没出嫁的女儿已经开始哭了。哎哟！！他真的让我很难堪嘛！当别人的眼光投像我，我的眼泪就会越来越骄傲，越流越多了。。。。哈哈！！！我真的是个爱哭包！！

Watching Taiwanese sitcom and Hong Kong Family issue sitcom always my love activities when I was free. Every time, when the story say about father try to protect his son and daughter, when someone try to hurt them, or when show the scene both mother and daughter hug and crying together, and show love and care each others. Or, friendship between 2 mans or 2 girls, encourage each others when facing some problem, and finally they success overcome every difficulties. Wah!! when I watch till this part sure my tears will drop like heavy rain and keep sniveling.

Yesterday, we went to my cousin sister house, because one of my cousin sister just back from New Zealand and some more we went to give out my wedding invitation cards for them. My mom and this cousin sister didn't see each other for few years so when they just meet up, they hug each other tightly. And I can see my cousin sister eyes turn red and got few drop of tears . And again, I also feel that my nose turn hot and my tears is just around my eyes. Of course, I can't cry in front of so many peoples, so I just try to hide my tears and wipe its away.

After day, we having dinner together in one of the restaurant nearby. Another of my cousin sister mention some sensitive topic. She said, she still remember the day she get marry. Early in the morning, she still happy and can't wait to complete the wedding. But some how, when the turn to have tea ceremony section for her own parents. One of the auntie say something like: Start from today you are belong to others family, and now you have to say thank you to he parents because they foster and nurture you till today. And my cousin sister said: When the moments this auntie mention all this words, she feel sad and suddenly realise something will be different. Going to stay together with another family members, and have different environment, different life-style. So, she keep crying when the day she become bride.

In between, she say all this. My tears already dropping from my eyes. I really can feel and understand the feeling. Cause I'm going to face this. Suddenly, her husband tells everyone I already crying before I become bride. So, everyone look at me. Wah!! Now my tears drop like waterfall already, can't stop. wahahahah!!! I'm like that, really a crybaby.

曹格 - 愛愛

Karaoke time!! Sing together with me!! wahahhaha!!

Hey guy please take action, propose with your love girl!!!

My new wed room primary photo + others things

Really..."Tui Sim Gua"(in Hokkien) mean being distressed. Pay so much money for the bridal shop. And just get back this things....haizzzz!!! But now luckily they didn't ask me to add money for the 3 SVIP wedding dresses during actual day wedding. If not....sure they will die!!! I die too (empty wallet already)!! wahahahha!! And I get back all my design soft copy too!! hahahha!! Okla...forgive them!! hehe

One more thing to Shock you!!!

The first day when I return from Dubai and reach my own room, I get shock when I see something SUPER red hanging on my wardrobe. I'm going to faint when I saw it!!! OMG....with red is okay..then some more with so many heart shape......(haizzzz)

Tolong!! Tolong la !! Mom (I shout to my mom)...this really cannot wear la!!! Then she smile to me!!! wahahhaha...Beh Ta Han her nia...!! And yesterday, I went to buy another one...is more "normal" type!

I tell myself, I must take this pictures to show blog friends, and keep it till forever. Always remind myself...I have a really cute mom.

无端端的拥有了。。。Suddenly I "OWN" it...

在一个风和日丽的下午，我和我妈又出门了。但是这次是为了要去修理车，因为 我家的老爷车出了小毛病。但是，我们千里迢迢来到＂旧大街＂，修理车的老板又刚好出门去了，还要一个小时才回来。所以，我们打算在＂旧大街＂那里等他。我 就突然想起，这里附近有间卖传统婚礼物品的老商店。所以就建议妈妈去＂看看＂。。。我妈也说明，只是去＂看看＂然后再比价钱。。。。但是，进去这商店后， 就不是去＂看看＂了。我妈突然，改变主义，说现在就买，懒惰再去别间商店比价钱。我的天啊！原本打算去＂看看＂就变成购买了，原本打算不买太过＂传统婚礼 物品＂的我。。。也变成买了。。。连我妈，都要买，没办法之下。我就无端端的拥有了。。。这些我不可能用的东西。例如：木屐，＂方便桶＂等等。。。。。无 言！！

This afternoon, I went out with my mom again. At first, we want to go to repair my mom's car in BM old town. But unfortunately, the one who always helps my mom to repair car uncle, went out to already, he needs one hour to reach his shop. So, we decided to wait him around there. I remember there is one old old shop, which is sell all the Chinese traditional wedding stuff, so I suggested my mom, while waiting the uncle, why not we go there have a look first. I told my mom, we just go there and "have a look" ONLY, and she agreed with me, and some more she told me we must compare price first. But.....when we arrived the shop, my mom change her mind, she is lazy go to other shops to compare price already, she want me to buy it now....haizzz!!! Okla...no choice..i have to obey!! She is the rules!! Deep in my heart, I not intended to buy all those "very very very" traditional wedding stuff!! Cause nowadays modern people won't use it, better save money to buy other thing!! but now....I suddenly "OWN" it!!

敬茶用的茶壶 Tea Set for the tea ceremony

我的嫁妆 My wedding room stuff

我最喜欢这个，放针线的 I like this the most, is old time people use it for needlework.

这是安床的＂缘钱＂hahah..don't know who to explain in English!!

这是镜子，但是要４个月后才可以开来用！我也不明白..why?? This is a mirror, but only can open 4 months after the wedding. Don't ask me why...i don't know!! wahahaha

这是给我美化我化妆品的小花This is the ribbon for us to decorate my make-up stuff on the table.

Mr.Quah的手帕 Mr.Quah, your handkerchief.

我不可能用的木屐 This is the clog, I won't use it la...please!!

百子千孙的长尺,因为我们平岁，所以需要两把！This is auspicious rules. Just because we are same age, so we need 2 rules!! OMG!! tak boleh tahan!

这是我所谓的＂方便＂桶。。哈哈！This I also don't know how to explain in English!! wahahha

上头梳子。男方用圆尾的，女方用尖尾的。I will update this!! hahah!!

剪刀，也因为我们平岁，所以需要。。。两个！晕掉！2 scissor here, just because we same age...so need 2 pair again!!! OMG!!

Master Kai Ji Birthday 开济师生日会

开济师父，是我妈妈和几位热心的佛友非常尊重的一位师父。他时常讲解关于佛教的教诲，让好多人收益不浅。开济师父不但能讲经说法，他赞颂佛曲也非常的好听，尤其是＂大悲忏＂。假如我在Penang,大马，我都会去参加他的＂大悲忏＂法会。除此之外, 师夫也精通"藏传佛法"还有"北传佛法"，这两种法门。当然，我们也受益匪浅咯！

今天，是开济师父的生日，我妈与几位佛友，都纷纷煮了几样家乡小菜（素食）来与开济师父庆生。

临别时，我和开济师父说：＂师父，你又多了一岁，哈哈！＂师父还跟我开个玩笑说：＂生日是少了一岁，少了生命的一岁！＂哈哈哈。无可辩驳，他说的的确如此，所以，师父时常劝我们要把握时间念佛，做善事，以便来生往好的地方去。

【 大悲忏法 】 《 佛学大词典 》
藏传, 北传佛法"

Today, is our Master Kai ji's birthday. My mom and few of her friends decided to have a small vegetarian party with him. He is more glorify or carry forward Mahayana Buddhism and Vajrayana Buddhism. He gives us a good opportunity to understand more about this 2 Buddhism. Besides, he has lots of follower around Malaysia, Singapore and China.

Before the end of the party, I chat with Master for a while. I said: "Master, today you already add one more digit in your age..haha" Then he reply and he make a joke, he said:" Today is less one year in my life, not add one year for my life." hahahhaha...He is true!! I understand what he mean, he always advice us, our life is very short, we must always remember to recitate the name of buddha, and always remember to do good deed everyday.

Glossary of Buddhism (Mahayana Buddhism & Vajrayana Buddhism)

婚前心情日记

最近假如你有看过我的部落格，又或者你有跟我通电话，通电邮，我都会告诉你我很忙。。。到底我在忙什么呢？我真的那么忙吗？还是我假惺惺要你们同情我？？？哈哈哈哈哈！我无法形容给你知道，我到底在忙着做什么！太多的隐形小细节需要我来策划，来预算。我打算出国以前，我还以为，结婚的东西我都大概准备完了。是的！好像我的婚纱照片，宴会，蜜月旅行，房间家私等等都准备好了。。那些表面看到的东西我都做好了。。。但是，在后面的小细节呢？？老实说，我还没有全盘预算。为什么我还在这里写部落格，而不去忙呢？？？说来话长。。我是独生女，要出门办事情，唯一可以陪伴我的就是我妈！但是，她最近很忙，忙着她净宗佛教会的事情，把我留在家。。。在家能办的就是打扫，清理家里的物件。。。。但是，家里的东西又是我妈和我爸的，根本不知道什么可以丢，什么应该留。假如，我收拾他们的东西，将来他们需要那件物品的话，我又忘记自己藏在那里了，我又不在大马。。。那时就麻烦了，肯定被骂！所以呢？我又要等他们两个回家，问清楚，这个还要吗？那个我收在储藏室，告诉清楚，他们物品的去向，才可以安心出国。你说，是不是很麻烦！我唯一能收拾的就只有我的房间。

什么小细节最让我头痛不已呢？就是我新房摆厨的东西。这对很多美美来说应该是件快乐的事情，因为可以买好多新衣服，新鞋子，新化妆品，新包包，新。。。！！本来，我还不太介意这件事情，但是我参考了，其他美美的新房跟自己比起来。。好像距离太远了吧！我的东西少之又少，化妆品？？才没有几样。新衣服更是可怜。不是没时间买，而是我在广场逛了又逛，还是看不到自己喜欢的东西。最近，又流行孕妇装那样阔的衣服，我已经买了几件了，总不能衣橱里面挂的都是款式大同小异的衣服吧！头痛！再说妈妈又不允许我乱买化妆品来用(你来我新房看的化妆品都是她选的噢) 是不是要晕掉了！！其实，不是我自己没有意见想要买什么而是我妈妈意见太多了。。我又不想跟她争吵，所以让她帮我买。包包？？这个我最不会选。。。你知道为什么吗？因为我出门最懒惰拿包包，最好给我两袖清风走街，两手挥来挥去，我是最高兴了。为什么我会这样呢？因为，从小我时常忘记这个，忘记那个。当手里拿着新的东西，就忘记之前手里本来就有的东西，然后走了很远才记得我的包包一个人留在那里。所以，从小我妈就劝我最好两袖清风走街，才不会增加自己跟别人的烦恼。窗帘！还有窗帘。。我最讨厌决定的东西，所以到现在我还没有去预定。你去窗帘布店，他们只让你看小小块的布，完全不能想像，这快小布方大后，挂在窗前会是怎样的效果。在再加上那里的布看来看去都是大花，小花的。到底房间放大花深色的窗帘好呢？还是，小花浅色的呢？可能我没有在这方面精心研究，所以在选时，都头昏脑胀。我最厉害的就是买书，买杂志。要我买这些衣服啊！裤子啊！包包啊！真的会让我脑出血！

其他的小细节就是招待亲戚朋友的问题了，亲戚朋友住宿，接送她们去宴会，还有他们的膳食问题，再加上很多人都不熟路，我们要怎样才能安全安排他们到达目的地呢？这些细节我们一定要好好计划，亲戚朋友很有我的心，从老远的吉隆坡，吉打，霹雳来参加我的婚宴，我总不能随便安排她们吧！对吗？

写了那么多，不要误会我是在抱怨。这只是我的婚前心情日记。将来，我回头看肯定又是另一番风味。谢谢大家的细心的阅读！

Penang Jie mei meeting

Yeah!! Yeah!! Yeah!!! my "jie mei"( girls to accompany me during my wedding day) is confirm...hehehe Hapi hapi!! We met at Starbucks, Auto-city yesterday. We really have a good chat and each others miss each other so much. Cause long long time never meet up already. Some of them, never meet up after graduation Form 6. Some working place is so near but never meet up, till yesterday they just found their working place is just opposite the building. hehehe!! Some always meet in the shopping area!! hahahaha!! But sorry penang "jie mei" the picture below is a bit blur. Never mind we take again when you come to my wedding.

For Kian yin and Grace....so sorry cannot meet up with you all in Kuala Lumpur.....sob sob!! but I still thanks wholeheatly for your attendance in my wedding day...Thank you thank you Thank you and infinity Thank you from me to both of you!!

DIY wedding car flower

The whole afternoon I'm busy with this one. Really tired!! Why I need to DIY ler?? hahah this is a good question. Em...cause I find is fun to do-it-myself??!! hehe maybe 60% is correct. hahaha. Actually, I want to get one more night grown to wear in the dinner. The bridal house only provided one night grown for me, so I want to have 2 night growns right. They suggest me find others to make the car decoration and then I can get one more lo. So..so..I have to try to DIY, if no success then I'll find others to do for me!! hehe this reason ok???!! wahahahhaha!!

This is the main materials, just like the net, you must choose the hard one, and I bought 1 meter. You can buy it in everywhere especially flower/fake flower shop. You need to make it like the ribbon. This is only 2 ribbon shape in the picture, we need 4 of this to make a circle.

Over here, there are 2 yellow net ribbon, 2 red net ribbon. I already fold it into V shape before I tie it together. So, there are 4 V shape to make a circle. Wahaha..so hard to explain. My explanation skill is really poor!!!

Then the doll, you can either sew with string on the net ribbon, or you can just glue it.

This is done (but still need to add something behind, cause need to tie it on the car). The flower and the small small diamond, I bought it in the Malay wedding flower shop. hahaha

One more for the back of the car.

This is the car side door flower. Total need to make 4 of it. Tired!!!

This is the main instrument I need in the gluing process. Besides, I use needle and string too.

Done!!! I'm done!!
Wow!! everywhere on the floor....luckily my mom is not around!! hahaha!! if not..sure she will scold me!! hehe...Faster clean up..she is coming back.

Towel with our wedding date

This towel I bought it in "cotton club" in Jusco. If you have 8 alphabet or number, it is free to type this letter on the towel you bought. So, this is free!! wahahah!! This will put in the wedding room, pink is for me, and the orange is for Mr.Quah!

我爱的非洲菊手花！My idea bouquet on my wedding day

I like this African Daisy or Gerbera Daisy very very much!! And I don't know why?!! hehe. This bouquet in the picture is mix with some roses. But my wedding bouquet just only Red African Daisy. hehehe!!

My wedding dinner venue!!

My wedding dinner will have it in Safira Country Club. This is the venue!! I no really like the backdrop. But forget about it la, if need to redecorate again will have to add money. Budget budget!!

回来大马家的心情！When I'm home!!

出国半年了，看了半年的沙漠，干沙和干石头；欣赏了半年的，由中东政府出钱出力栽培的花草树木。回来看到了，没有人栽培也可以长得很高很壮的野草，野花，野树。真的觉得太不可思议吧！！中东那里通常都是高速公路，普通的路都很宽。回来Penang看到，我们可爱的小路，连大桥上的公路，顿时变成那里的小路。不好意识，不是我看底自己的国家。我只是说出我回来看到的心情感受。

可能，老天知道我很想念下雨天，所以飞机一到大马吉隆坡就有毛毛细雨来迎接我，我认为自然界给的冷风感觉，和电器所发出的冷风是有一定的分别。在飞机上我看到了一团一团绿绿的东西，好像青苔（阴湿地方生长的绿色苔藓）哦！在中东肯定没有这种东西，因为那里的阴湿度很底，太阳公公早就把它们给消灭了。

服装！！我在中东那里最不可能穿短裤出门，连站在门外都最好穿长裤。假如你第一次到那里，糊里糊涂的穿短裤出门,你就会知道发生什么事，因为，有太多的奇怪眼光会让你觉得不舒服，好象自己裸身就跑出门一样。其实，只不过是穿短裤而已嘛！！我想最后我最好去买件她们的服装，包黑头纱，全身黑黑。。我想那时可能没有人会看我！！这样一来走街才舒服嘛！！

假如，有一天，我们抽奖得到免费到中东游玩，我很肯定这个地方我不会再来。同样的问题，我反问了其他在那里的大马华人朋友。他们给我的答案也是一样。瓦哈哈！！

回来家里，最重要的就是筹备婚礼，我满脑子都在想今天去那里，做什么，明天去那里见什么人。结果冷落了，我的部落格。以前，我从来没有记录我今天买了什么，花了多少钱。哈哈！最重要的是，以前的我很少花钱，少女应该花钱打扮自己，但是我不知道为什么跟人不一样，打扮？着个名词离我很远。今时今日的我，必须写下来，仔细记录购物的花费。要不冉天天到广场买买买。。。到最后需要钱的时候已经所剩无多。

今晚，我和妈妈，还有未来家婆家公，到主办晚宴的地方跑一趟。想跟负责人交代一切，还有就是今晚有人在那里办喜宴，所以要去观察别人，参考别人如何做。将来到我们时候才不会忙手忙脚。

About half years I stayed in Middle east. The environment surround me is always desert, sand, and the rock mountain. And all the grass, flower and tree is planted by the government. Not like Malaysia, you can see all the grass, flower and the tree growth as many as they like, every where until people must go to weed the grass. Over there the glass is very precious, over here, glass is just a irritating stuff in front of you. wahahha!!

When I reach KLIA, Malaysia airport. The sky start drizzling, maybe the sky know I miss raining day so much, even now when I see thick and beautiful cloud in the blue sky I will feel very very happy. Maybe you think I'm crazy. I feel so happy with the weather and it just cold enough, and I feel the natural's cold is totally different from what is come out from the aic-con. haha..what concept is that?!! Maybe is the cold air from the air-con is not fresh enough! Besides, when I in the plane, I saw lots of small green mass, gathere together. Just like the fungus or lichen, normally growth a lots especially after few days heavy rain. This totally cannot see when in the middle east, cause the humidity over there are very low, fungus need lots of water to growth.

Costume, this is a very very obvious different between this 2 country peoples. I totally cannot wear short when I over there, even you just stand in front of your house. Actually you can still wear it, but...you must feel comfortable when people look weird at you. wahahahah!! I don't like this feeling, so I'm always in trousers and sometime in jacket (to pervent the sunlight too). If you want to feel more comfortable and noone will look at you, better you buy their local costume, lady in black and cover your face and everywhere. wahahah!! Then I grantee you will be safe.

I ask Mr.Quah, if one day we get a free trip included the air-ticket for free, will you come here again?? He answer me confidently, No!! hahaha. The same question, I ask few Malaysian Chinese, they answer me the same. hahahaha!!

When I'm home, most of the time I'm preparing my wedding. Planing is very important for me now. Cause I short of time and money! hahaha!! So a good planning will help us have a perfect wedding. So...pity my blog, cause no time to bored it for so long time. Just today is sunday, I can have a rest, so can update a bit la!! haha. Previously, I never record everything after the shopping. Today, I will write down what I bought and calculate the price together. Em..really have to budget budget!! If not end up...my bank accont will empty soon!! wahahaha

Tonight, I will go to safira country club with my mother, and both future in law. Cause tonigth there will have a wedding banquet there, so I wish to see the real environment and have a good discuss with the people in charge there. hahaha!! Hope can upload picture to show you all!!



My record book!!